Side Sex Position

The side sex position is as appealing to a couple in their seventies as it is to one in their twenties. Though it may not constitute the most adventurous lovemaking position, it affords an unmatched level of intimacy, and can be carried out to maximum effect with virtually no physical effort. Today I will show you precisely how to perform this sex position so that both you and your partner derive the most benefit.

A typical, healthy couple will have sex several times a week; sometimes using adventurous techniques, sometimes something more sedentary. The side-by-side sex position is ideal for a couple who wish to cuddle, get close, and feel, overall, a high level of physical and emotional intimacy. It is, of course, equally beneficial to both the elderly and the pregnant for the same reasons.

The most common approach to the side sex position is known as “the spoons”. The couple lie naked on the same side as one another with the man embracing the woman from behind. He will begin by gently fondling her body, kissing her neck, whispering erotic messages into her ear. In response, the woman will reach behind, stroking her man and moaning in pleasure at his loving touch.

When she is ready, the woman will lean forward ever so slightly, encouraging the man to enter her vagina. With gentleness, the man penetrates her vagina until his testicles touch her warm bottom. Still massaging her erogenous zones, still whispering erotic words into her ears, still caressing her neck and face with his slightly parted lips, the man lovingly explores inside the woman with his penis.

To receive stimulation to her clitoris, the woman will part her thighs and either massage it herself, or encourage her lover to do so. Some women will prefer to do it themselves, others will prefer it performed by the man.

Now there is much talk about the famous G-spot when we consider sex positions. During the side sex position it is entirely possible for the man to both stimulate a woman’s clitoris as well as her far more pleasurable G-spot.

The woman will lean forward and turn slightly more into the bed. As the man continues to penetrate her warm vagina, the woman will angle her body, still in this side position, so that the head of the man’s penis begins to pummel her sensitive G-spot knob.

It is at this stage that the woman is being ultimately pleasured by her loving man. She is enjoying caresses to her erogenous zones - such as her neck, earlobes and breasts - whilst also experiencing clitoral and G-spot stimulation brought about by his hands and erect penis.

With the woman bent forward slightly more then when they began their lovemaking, the man is also enjoying maximum penetration, making it a simple task to continue pleasuring the G-spot.

If the woman has a G-spot orgasm, it is entirely possible for her to continue making love, and experience many more G-spot orgasms. The man should continue to penetrate her but not deep enough to touch the G-spot. When she is ready for more G-spot pleasure, he can then continue to direct his penis at the sensitive little knob inside the vagina. In this way the woman can receive orgasm after orgasm until the man, unable to withhold his own orgasmic climax any longer, releases his pleasure in a final, shuddering gasp.

When both partners have enjoyed their last orgasmic release (for now), the side sex position is perfect for an after-sex cuddle, the man continuing to hold the woman from behind in a warm, tender embrace. It is at this point that a level of emotional closeness is at it’s peak; still physically connected, the couple experience a sensation of feeling as one human being.