A typical, healthy couple will have sex several times a week; sometimes using adventurous techniques, sometimes something more sedentary. The side-by-side sex position is ideal for a couple who wish to cuddle, get close, and feel, overall, a high level of physical and emotional intimacy. It is, of course, equally beneficial to both the elderly and the pregnant for the same reasons.

The most common approach to the side sex position is known as “the spoons”. The couple lie naked on the same side as one another with the man embracing the woman from behind. He will begin by gently fondling her body, kissing her neck, whispering erotic messages into her ear. In response, the woman will reach behind, stroking her man and moaning in pleasure at his loving touch.

When she is ready, the woman will lean forward ever so slightly, encouraging the man to enter her vagina. With gentleness, the man penetrates her vagina until his testicles touch her warm bottom. Still massaging her erogenous zones, still whispering erotic words into her ears, still caressing her neck and face with his slightly parted lips, the man lovingly explores inside the woman with his penis.

To receive stimulation to her clitoris, the woman will part her thighs and either massage it herself, or encourage her lover to do so. Some women will prefer to do it themselves, others will prefer it performed by the man.

Now there is much talk about the famous G-spot when we consider sex positions. During the side sex position it is entirely possible for the man to both stimulate a woman’s clitoris as well as her far more pleasurable G-spot.

The woman will lean forward and turn slightly more into the bed. As the man continues to penetrate her warm vagina, the woman will angle her body, still in this side position, so that the head of the man’s penis begins to pummel her sensitive G-spot knob.

It is at this stage that the woman is being ultimately pleasured by her loving man. She is enjoying caresses to her erogenous zones - such as her neck, earlobes and breasts - whilst also experiencing clitoral and G-spot stimulation brought about by his hands and erect penis.

With the woman bent forward slightly more then when they began their lovemaking, the man is also enjoying maximum penetration, making it a simple task to continue pleasuring the G-spot.

If the woman has a G-spot orgasm, it is entirely possible for her to continue making love, and experience many more G-spot orgasms. The man should continue to penetrate her but not deep enough to touch the G-spot. When she is ready for more G-spot pleasure, he can then continue to direct his penis at the sensitive little knob inside the vagina. In this way the woman can receive orgasm after orgasm until the man, unable to withhold his own orgasmic climax any longer, releases his pleasure in a final, shuddering gasp.

When both partners have enjoyed their last orgasmic release (for now), the side sex position is perfect for an after-sex cuddle, the man continuing to hold the woman from behind in a warm, tender embrace. It is at this point that a level of emotional closeness is at it’s peak; still physically connected, the couple experience a sensation of feeling as one human being.

The man and woman are naked and relaxed. For reasons to be explained shortly, the woman will relieve her bladder beforehand. The woman is then encouraged to lie comfortably on her stomach upon the bed with her thighs slightly parted. With his fingers, the man gently massages the vagina. Soon enough, the natural lubricant allows him to easily slide his thumb into the vagina. He travels into the vagina with his thumb and angles down, towards the bed, until he meets the resistance of a small knob, roughly the same size as the thumb, otherwise known as the Grafenberg spot or the G-spot.

The G-spot is gently rubbed; any way is appropriate: side to side or in a circular motion, as long as it is gentle. Treatment of the G-spot is similar to that of the clitoris in this initial stage. In other words, it is handled moderately, languidly. As soon as the man feels the small knob inflate he begins to treat it increasingly more vigorously; the woman will soon let him know if he is being too rough but, almost always, this is never the case. When the G-spot becomes aroused it can be subjected to extremely vigorous treatment; in fact, the rougher, the better.

The woman feels herself rising to a climax, coupled with a sensation of needing to urinate. But she ignores the sensation emanating from her bladder. She will not pee because she has already urinated before trying this sex position. Within a couple of minutes of her inflamed G-spot being manipulated, the woman experiences a huge, body-rocky G-spot orgasm. It is several times more powerful than the more commonplace clitoral orgasm. Some women have reported it feeling ten to twenty times more orgasmic.

Now, depending on the woman’s overall level of health and fitness, the man can resume G-spot manipulation within thirty seconds to two minutes of the orgasm. He then simply repeats the rough, vigorous G-spot massage, until another orgasm rocks through the woman. This process can be repeated with continued success as many times as the woman can stand. It is easily possible to give the woman several hundred earth-rending orgasms in one evening, interspersed by mere seconds or minutes.

This article is, of course, about the best sex position ever. So I will now describe the second phase of coupling wherein the man substitutes his penis for, used up until now, his thumb.

When the woman has experienced several orgasms, her G-spot will be highly sensitive. She will be able to feel the sensitive knob pleasurably throbbing within her vagina.

The man lies on his back and the woman mounts him, allowing his erect penis to completely penetrate her vagina. The woman is now able to ride the man and angle her body appropriately so the head of his penis is hitting her sensitive G-spot.

Just as when her G-spot was being manipulated by the man’s thumb, the woman is able to experience repeated deep orgasms, separated by either seconds or minutes. To add to the already intense sexual pleasure she experiences by this sex position, she can also massage her own clitoris, and enjoy simultaneous G-spot and clitoral orgasmic climaxes.

I think you can appreciate how this is clearly the best sex position ever. In a single evening a woman is able to experience hundreds of orgasms, larger than ever before, and the man is, of course, revered for giving the woman such grandiose heights of sexual ecstasy.

(If you want to try out this sex position, visit our adult personals section and find a partner)

Most of the well-known adult dating services allow you to join for free and have limited use of their site. You can create a free profile, upload some pictures, browse other dating profiles and, sometimes, even view the details of your favorite profiles. That is about all you can do - unless you decide to whip out the old credit card and upgrade your membership.

What these dating services do not allow you to do is actually contact any of the other members. Now, since the entire purpose of you joining a dating service is to have contact with members and, hopefully, meet them in person, not being able to contact anyone forces most people to upgrade. I’m here to tell you there is no need to do so. You can use any paid dating service, meet dozens - perhaps even hundreds - of people, and never - I repeat - never have to reach for your credit card. The secret, friends and neighbors, is creating a truly award-winning profile . . . and having paying members contact you!

I own and operate my own free dating service and I can tell you exactly what you need to do to create a great profile that you can use on any number of paid dating sites. Before I do so it should be noted that even when you receive lots of messages from those paying members, you still would need to upgrade your membership in order to reply. However, inside a great many messages you’ll discover people leaving email, aim, and icq addresses. This obviously negates the need for you having to reply by the site and, therefore, wasting your money.

To create a profile that will generate many responses from paying members you need to follow a few simple rules.

Use a picture. Always try to use a face-picture for your profile and ensure that the quality is good and you look happy and casual. A face-picture will always encourage more responses than, say, taking a picture of a part of your body.

A snappy headline, something attention-grabbing, will encourage people to choose to have a closer look at your profile while browsing great groups of dating profiles. Try to be different with your title, helping it stand out from the group. Sometimes using a question is often a good way to get people to click through to view your full profile: “Do You Like My Hot Pictures?”, for instance.
Be sure, also, to include a lot of information about yourself. You will find many fields to enter such data : your bio, interests, favorite books, preferred movies, and so on. The more effort you put into your profile, the more opportunity you give people to decide if they want to meet you.

Keep your bio short and interesting. Use small, three sentence paragraphs that are easy to digest, and try not to bore. Humor is always a good tool to employ!

So, in conclusion, in order to use any paid adult dating online services, all you need to do is create an attention-getting profile that encourages people to respond. I know people who use this technique at many of the most popular dating sites and have several hundred responses a week. And the great part is you’ve only spent time reading this article; your money is earning interest in the bank or waiting to be spent on a good book!

In this article I will give you ten tips for success when using adult picture personals. Since these are picture personals I will, naturally, concentrate on the photographic aspects of such sites.

1: A Face Picture

A personals site is, of course, intended to help people find a romantic date or an adult hookup. Before we consider meeting anyone for the first time we like to know what they look like (hence the reason for using picture personals) but, more specifically, we want to see their face. A body, after all, is a body; either slim, athletic, chubby or obese. A face contains far more character and when we say we’re attracted to someone, we usually refer to the face.

2: Good Quality Picture

A good quality picture refers to both subject (you) and image-quality. Digital cameras are cheap nowadays so try choosing one capable of shooting images with at least two million megapixels. When posing for your picture, try to relax, adopt a natural expression, and smile. People always respond better when we smile, a proven fact any salesman will tell you (and, after all, in adult personals, we are selling ourselves).

3: Dare To Be Different

When using an adult personals site, people will usually browse profiles, before finally selecting one they wish to inspect in detail. You should attempt to stand out from the crowd by being different and you have two chances to do so: your title or heading and your picture.

Choose an eye-catching or compelling heading. A bad example: “I Want A Date; a good title: “10 Reasons Why I’m The Hottest Guy On Here”. The last heading compels the reader to find out why this guy thinks he’s so much hotter than every other guy on the site.

Your picture could stand out by being tinted in an interesting color or have you holding up a sign, for instance. The signs are proven to work very well - people cannot make out the words in a tiny thumb picture and so are compelled to see the larger image out of pure curiosity.

4: Optimize Your Pictures For Quick Download

When you initially take a picture with your digital camera the file size is usually huge; we’re sometimes talking as much as two megabytes or more. If all your pictures are this huge, it will take a long time to download each one, which of course is boring, tedious for the viewer.

I highly recommend adobe photoshop. Open up each of your images and scale down the size to about 600 X 800 and then optimize them for the web. All you do is select an image in your copy of photoshop and then click file and choose “save for web”. You will then be given an opportunity to select the type of file you wish to save it as and also the quality. Always choose jpg for pictures and reduce your quality setting to about 50%. Your 600 X 800 picture has now gone from 2 megabytes, taking several minutes to load, to approximately 50k, taking only seconds to load.

5: Common Mistakes To Avoid

I once saw a personals ad picture with a guy sat next to his Mother. A similar mistake to avoid would be one where you’re sitting beside your ex-wife or, dare I say it, current wife!

Pictures of - how shall I put this? - body parts are so unappealing and yet, curiously, very widespread. Avoid the temptation to take a picture of your appendages; you will not stand out from the crowd, you will look silly, and you will get few people viewing your personals ad.

Poor image-quality is unforgivable in an era of inexpensive digital cameras and yet it does persist. There is simply no excuse for a blurred or over/under-exposed picture.

Conclusion

Adult picture personals are, of course, an example way to meet people off the internet. Why? Well because get to select people who we find attractive; improving our chances of a successful relationship. If you follow the five tips in this article you will put yourself in the top 5% of people posting adult personal ads. Good luck!

A transgender person is someone who chooses not to conform to common ideas of gender, but combines genders or swaps them. We are all assigned a gender at birth: male or female. A transgender person will feel their gender either fails to describe them adequately or is entirely the wrong type of gender. A common occurrence is when a person with male genitalia feels they are female inside.

Transgender identity is made up of many categories of individual. A tg personals site will give you the option to browse or search for many varieties of transgender people. So we should cover the meanings of various terms which can be quite confusing for newcomers.

A transsexual is a person who has changed their gender from the one given to them at birth. So a male to female transgender or transsexual is a man who has transformed himself into a women. The opposite is the female to male transsexual or transgender.

A cross-dresser is a man or a woman who wears clothing in a fashion that would be stereotypical of the opposite of their own gender. So a cross-dressing man will dress like a woman and vice versa. Another name for a cross-dresser (or cd) is transvestite; however, cross-dressers do prefer the term cross-dresser over transvestite.

An androgyne person is an individual whose assigned gender or emotional identity is neither male or female The androgyne can be genderless, have both genders, be in a process of swapping genders, or contain elements of both genders.

Transgender does not refer to chosen sexuality so in all of the cases above you may assume individuals are either gay, straight or bi-sexual.

You will find that tg personals is quite an uncommon variety of personals site. However, if you search around, you will find some good free sites allowing you to meet transgender people. The above terminology will help you understand the different classes of transgender individual which, as mentioned, is often confusing since so many terms are very much alike.

You should keep in mind that transgender people can be gay, straight or bi-sexual and therefore, when searching on these personals sites, remember to choose an option for sexuality.

A final tip for you is to be polite and understanding with people you meet on transgender personal or dating sites. Such people face much persecution and, therefore, respond very well to kindness, understanding and compassion.

If you’re new to Personals Dot Com, be sure to check out one or all of our new communities : general chat, adult chat and alternative chat!

You now have a place to find Mistresses, Masters, subs, slaves, switches, foot fetishists and all manner of other partners interested in the alternative, non-vanilla lifestyle.

So Personals Dot Com now has 3 sections for your personal ads : alternative ads, adult ads and dating ads. If you can think of any other sections, please just let us know!

The basic idea is to use us as an accompaniment to your personal ads on the big dating sites. Why? Well, think of it like this. You place an ad on IwantU, for instance, and you get listed with 20,000 other ads (or more or a bit less). You’ll be lucky to get 1 reply in a day. On the other hand, place a personal ad on Personals Dot Com and you appear on the front page of the site, which obviously gets the most visitors and, since we will likely never approve 20,000 ads in a day, your ad will always be easier to find.

So the advantage of Personals Dot Com over large personals sites is this - we give your ad more exposure. Now I’m not suggesting that you stop using a site like IWantU. I think a good plan is using the large dating sites specifically for searching out what you want and also enjoying all of their community features (like chat rooms, live video feeds, and so on) and use Personals Dot Com to get more responses to your own ad.

If 1,000 people visit the front page of Personals Dot Com it is likely that 1,000 will see your ad. Out of them, you might have 10% look at your ad, and 10% of them respond to it. I think this is the least we could expect. So by placing an ad here you stand to get at least 10 responses. Now right now Personals Dot Com is new. Just imagine how many responses you could get when we have 10,000 daily visitors and 100,000.

So, there you have it, the reason why I think people should use Personals Dot Com. We may not be big, we may not have all the bells and whistles of the big dating sites, but we will likely get your ad more responses than all of them put together. On top of that, we’re free and they’re not!

Have a great day,

Kristian

The idea borne, I grabbed my trusty notepad and pen and sketched how I envisioned the site. Now the object, as I saw it, was to create a fully working free personals site that relied entirely on wordpress for its platform. I spent hours pouring over wordpress hacks and plugins and by lunchtime knew what I had in mind would indeed be possible.

And, here we are - the first day of what I hope will be a long and happy life for Personals Dot Com.

Personals Dot Com is not intended to replace or even compete with huge dating sites. I’d like to think we could be used in conjunction with them. The idea is to give you a free personals site that will give your personal ads a terrific level of exposure.

When you create a personals ad on any other site, your ad is hidden among thousands of other similar ads. Sure, people can find you but, let’s face it, you’re competing with masses of other people. Now with Personals Dot Com we’ll only be posting a few ads each day - after all, we have to review each one ourselves. This way your ad will appear on the high traffic main page and then be easily found as people browse back through the pages.

With any luck when Personals Dot Com is more popular, your ads might be getting thousands of responses each day. And the good thing is I never - EVER - intend to charge for this service … ever.

So, I’m excited about this. I have what I believe is a cool dating site that people will want to use as well as the bigger sites, since we offer a different free service (more exposure for your ads), and I’m looking forward to seeing how wordpress as a dating cms pans out. As wordpress and the plugins develop we should see exciting changes on Personals Dot Com.

Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoy the site!

- Kristian